Problem-solving skills essential to combat bullying

Problem solving skills are essential to prevent kids from being bullies or victims of bullies, according to USA Weekend magazine.  An analysis of over 150 studies appeared in School Psychology Quaterly's June issue shows that kids and teens who have difficulty solving problems are more at risk to be either bullies, victims of bullies, or both.  One of the tips they offer is to avoid jumping in to fix problems, try to step back and let them figure it out for themselves.  We know many parents struggle with this because they are torn between wanting their kids to learn the skills and wanting to avoid seeing them suffer a bit.  It is hard to watch our kids flounder as they work to figure things out between friends, with siblings, or even with teachers.  However the more practice they have at doing so, the more competent they become.  Not only is problem-solving an essential skill to prevent bullying, but it's also the hallmark of a successful employee, spouse, parent, and friend.  Tell us how being a good problem-solver has helped your child!